Hangry = hungry and angry.
Hunger often results in ‘bad’ behaviour.. This unmet physical need causes an imbalance within the nervous system which regulates arousal. Hunger causes blood sugar levels to fall which the body compensates for by releasing cortisol and adrenaline.
It makes sense that these hormones could trigger feelings of anger, anxiety and general agitation.
Of course not every tantrum will be because they are hungry, so it’s important that we don’t fulfill emotional needs through food, but if it’s been a while since your child last ate something, a snack might just help.
1) Always give them breakfast. Children who have breakfast have improved behaviour, wellbeing and academic performance
2) Have meals at regular times. Hunger is linked to our circadian rhythm so eating at predictable times can help.
3) Keep blood sugar levels stable with healthy snacks in between meals..
Snacks are important for kids for a number of reasons.
When choosing snacks for kids, it is important to choose snacks that are healthy and nutritious. Some good choices include:
It is also important to limit the amount of sugary snacks and processed foods that kids eat. These foods can contribute to weight gain, tooth decay, and other health problems.
Question: But Jem my kid says they’re hungry but are refusing the healthy snack I’m offering
Answer: You need to question whether they are actually hungry, or just hankering after a sweet treat like a biscuit!
Or are they thirsty? Sometimes the symptoms feel the same…
Or are they bored? Might be time for a change of scenery.
Question: They are asking for a yoghurt (which is healthy) but I’m about to serve dinner.
Answer: It’s OK to tell them they need to wait a short while. You may well end up with them having a bit of a tantrum (read my tips on handling those here) Alternatively, could they be eating the vegetables you’ll be serving with dinner now?
I have always been interested in gentle parenting techniques, and as a self confessed ‘geek’ I spent many a sleepless night reading. I became so interested in infant brain development and the science of sleep that I completed my Holistic Sleep Coaching qualification, mentored by the wonderful Lyndsey Hookway. I have been working as a toddler sleep consultant since 2018, I am based in Manchester but I can work with you from anywhere in the world online!
This coupled with my experience in settling techniques, toddler negotiation strategies and analysis of naps and sleep needs gives me a wealth of knowledge to be able help you.
If you’re looking for help with making changes to your family’s sleeping habits and would like to speak to a toddler sleep consultant who is down to earth and sympathetic and will focus on you and your family with empathy and understanding then please get in touch.
I would love to hear from you!
Jem x
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